Kink of the Week – Anal Sex

I have always been back and forth when it came to anal sex. My first experiences with it were quite horrible. The partner I was with refused to use lube, even though I brought it out every time. He also never gave any warm up, and just shoved his dick inside fast and hard. My cries of pain were taken as moans of pleasure and he went harder. I was lucky in the fact that he used a condom, because he didn’t think that was necessary either.

I have a few butt plugs, but they have never really did much to excite me. I would love to try an Njoy Pure Plug though.

Anal sex was never really an interest for me. It seemed messy and dirty, and not in a way that I wanted to experience. I only agreed to it back then because the then partner wouldn’t stop begging for it. Ever since then, I have read about how amazing it can be. I am still hesitant, but not as much as I used to be. With the right partner, I believe that I would learn to enjoy it.

I have only ever received, but I do have a bit of a pegging fantasy. Aaron and I have dabbled a bit together, and I very much look forward to exploring more with him. I love feeling him tighten around me as I slowly and carefully ease my lubed finger inside. I love even more hearing his moans as I stroke his cock while stimulating his prostate. On of these days we will get the strap on out and I can use it on him.

I look forward to exploring all of these in greater depth, especially with Aaron at my side.

Orgasm Count of 2017

Long time no update. I apologize for that. Life has me busy, but in the best of ways.

Speaking of the best, things with Aaron still going strong. He is the most kind hearted man I have ever met and I am excited to start this new year with him.

I feel like I don’t have the best of luck with even numbered years, but if that is actually the case, as long as I have Aaron I can get through anything.

So, how about that orgasm count? It is higher than last year’s, but not by much. Heres to hoping I can continue to up my numbers.

As for the new year, I really want to try to write more. I have kind of neglected this place a bit, and I am sorry for that. I have several ideas for posts, now I just need to actually go to my computer and write them.

I hope everyone had a great holiday and has a good new year. How did you bring in the new year? I played video games and wrote this post.

Product Review – Lelo Sona

I quickly became a huge fan of the Womanizer. In fact, I rarely ever use my regular vibrators anymore, just because I get such better feelings from it. That is why I was eager to try the Lelo Sona offered to me by Good Vibes. I received this toy for free in exchange for my honest review.

The Packaging

The Lelo Sona comes in a black display box. With it comes a USB charging cord, quick guide, One year warranty card, and black satin bag.

The Toy

The Lelo Sona does not use vibrations, but instead “sonic waves and pulses” to stimulate the entire clitoris, not just the external part. Unfortunately the head is one size, so it is not detachable. That was not a problem for me, but I can imagine it might be a problem for women with more prominent clitorises.

I got the pink version of Sona, but it is also available in Cerise (a darker pink), and black. There are eight settings, and eight speeds. As usual, my favorite setting is the steady one, but unlike most toys, I can rarely stand to have it on the highest speed. I did have fun changing the speeds and hearing a very musical “Do Re Mi Fa So La Ti Do.” To turn on/off and change speeds, press the (+/-). To cycle through patterns and settings press the middle “()” button. You can set and unset the travel lock by holding and pressing the (+) and (-) buttons simultaneously for 3 seconds.

The Lelo Sona is 100% waterproof and made from silicone and PVC plastic. The button placement is fairly intuitive and it is easy to hold, though I wish there was less of a curve at the “handle.” Two hours of charging offers one hour of playtime, depending on speed and setting used. Another thing I love about Sona is how quiet it is. As much as I love using my toys, I still feel awkward if I can hear it too loudly.

Overall

Overall, I loved the Sona. I think it is my favorite Lelo product that I have owned in a while. I was impressed that the power definitely got a boost compared to previous toys. I loved that Sona is quiet and waterproof, making it easy to clean and use. Thank you Good Vibes for letting me review this toy!

Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2017

When I first started blogging, Rori at BetweenTheSheets compiled a list of the top 100 sex bloggers. A few years ago, Molly took over the list when Rori stepped down.

I uave always admired the list, as well as the person to put it together because a lot of time and effort goes into it. For the first time though since I have been blogging, I am excited to see myself on the list.

Thank you so much, both to Molly and the wonderful bloggers and readers that nominated me, May and Nero.

Top 100 Sex Bloggers 2017

Product Review – Liberator Fascinator Throe

I have always been a squirter, but I tend to try to control it because I don’t like sleeping in my wet spot. Towels never helped to contain the mess, so I always longed for something waterproof to put down. That is why I was excited to review the Liberator Fascinator Throe for Betty’s Toy Box.

The Throe comes in many different colors, but I got the “Merlot” shade. It is 72″ x 54″, so it fits perfectly on my full size bed. One side is satin, the other side a soft, velvety microfiber. In between the two sides is a waterproof material, preventing any leaks from crossing one side or the other. Cleaning is made easy, as it is machine washable in cold water, separately or with dark colors and tumble dry low.

I made lots of use out of the Throe when I got it, and I plan to continue to do so for many years to come. (So many puns with that last sentence). When I first got it, my boyfriend and I put it to use immediately. We tried both sides, and found that having it velvet side down, satin side up to prevent slipping. The microfiber grabs onto surfaces better, whereas the satin made us go slipping and sliding when it was facing down.

At one point we used it as a blanket as we cuddled naked watching a movie. It was warm, using the microfiber side facing us. The only thing we noticed that was a little distracting was the loud crinkly sound it makes when being moved around a lot. It really didn’t bother us that much though.

Overall, the Liberator Fascinator Throe is a great investment. It is soft, durable, easy clean, and keeps other surface clean, and it blends in well with other blankets for when discretion is necessary. Thank you so much to Betty’s Toy Box for letting me review one! It will definitely be used all of the time.

Kink of the Week – Cutting/Tearing Clothes

I have never torn or cut someone’s clothes off, nor has it been done to me. However, I have always kind of fantasized about it. There is something about it that is just so sexy. That urgency intrigues me.

As much as I fantasize about it, I could never do it unless it was a planned thing. I would need to know that they are ok with that set of clothes being destroyed. I would hope that the same courtesy is applied to me. Clothes are expensive.

I think I would prefer tearing over cutting clothes off. Knife play just isn’t my thing. I would be worried about accidentally cutting my partner, or them cutting me. That said, clothes can be hard to tear. If clothes were to be torn off, I would want to use something that already had holes in it or had a small pre-cut to help get started.

One thing I love to do when I have a pair of underwear that is on it’s last threads is tear it to shreds. I think next time I get a pair that I am ready to throw out and have my boyfriend tear them off of me. That sounds fun. What do you think? :p

TMI Tuesday – Story Time

Let’s have some new fun with TMI Tuesday. Create a story using the words below. Your story should be 250 words or less. It can be funny, sexy, sad, quirky, kinky and/or intriguing.

Get those creative juices flowing!
Dragging
Kitchen
Bedroom
Sofa
Albert Einstein
Closet
Eggbeater
Olive Oil
Eight (8)
Rain

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Happy TMI Tuesday!

I was intrigued by this week’s TMIT. I thought it would by fun for my boyfriend and I to both write a story.

My Story – Albert Einstein was in the kitchen, cleaning up while listening to the rain on the roof. It was a cold and stormy night, and he couldn’t help himself as he reminisced about the sexy afternoon he had had with his lover.

It started on the sofa, where they watched a funny movie. They held hands, and kissed between scenes. As he cleaned the eggbeater, he thought about how he had bent her over the coffee table to lighly smack her ass.

Practically dragging each other to the bedroom in primal urgency, he tossed his belt onto the closet shelf. His eightinch cock was begging to be released from the confines of his pants.

As he wiped down the counters and put away the olive oil, he thought about the lotion they had used to massage into each other’s backs.

It wasn’t long before he was on top of her, emptying his hot, creamy load into her tight, wet pussy.

Aaron’s Story – The rain beat soundly against the roof. Ryan never liked moving things around, but if Ash asks him to get the sofa out of the closet and into the bedroom, then he’d be dragging that sofa around. “How do you like your eggs!” He heard Ash’s voice from the kitchen. She was on dinner duty tonight, and Ryan couldn’t help pass up one of his favorite jokes.

“Unfertilized!”

“You know what I meant! How many do you want, I’m thinking of doing eight for the both of us!”

“Sounds good to me!” Ryan called back. He passed his favorite poster of Albert Einstein, the one with his tongue sticking out, as he went back to hurting his back.

“Where’s the eggbeater! Why do you never have anything where it should be?” Ash asked. He could hear her rummaging through various cupboards.

“It should be next to the olive oil!”

“Why the…Ryan, we need to talk about where you place some of your tools sometimes.”

“What? I know you like where I place my tool!”

“Dammit Ryan!” He smirked. He could hear her blush from here.

Product Reviews – Aria Hue G, Naughty Candy Heart Butt Plug, and Noje Mini Wand Attachments

I am always searching for new G-Spot vibrators as that is one of my favorite ways to be stimulated, so I did not hesitate when I got offered the Aria Hue G by Peepshow Toys. I received this toy for free in exchange for my honest review. I was also given the Candy Hearts butt plug, and some attachment pieces to my Noje Mini Wand that I reviewed here.

Aria Hue G by Blush Novelties

The Aria Hue G by Blush Novelties comes in a standard cardboard and plastic box in a variety of bright colors. I got the neon green one, but there is also a pink, purple, and  orange color available. I found the size to be perfect, not too big and not too small with an insertable length of 5 inches and 1.39 inches wide. It hit my G-Spot easily.

The Aria Hue G does require 2 AAA batteries, which I was a tad annoyed about, but quickly got over it when I felt how rumbly this vibrator is, considering. There are 5 steady speeds and 5 patterned vibrations to the Aria Hue G. To operate, there is a single button to cycle through the speeds and patterns. It is squishy and waterproof, which is a huge bonus.

I found Aria to be a good toy, even though it requires batteries, something I have not needed in years, as most everything I won now is rechargeable. Aria is quiet, and would be difficult to hear from another room. Overall, Aria is a good toy and I will definitely keep her around for future play.

Naughty Candy Hearts Butt Plug

I found this plug hard to resist  when I saw it up for review. I have always been a sucker for those cute candy hearts that you see at Valentine’s day, so I thought it was even better to have one all year round. Personally, I am new and fairly inexperienced to butt play, so I thought it was even better that I get a chance to review this toy. The one I got says “Be Mine,” but there are two others to choose from, “Do Me Now” and “Spank Me.”

The plug itself is a good size for beginners. It is only 3.25 inches insertable, and 1.42 inches around. It is made from body safe silicone, so be sure to use only water based lube. The silicone is silky smooth, making sliding very easy. That said, it does not stay in as easily.

Maybe I did something wrong, was in the wrong position, or it needs to be used with a partner, but I could not get it to stay in. My guess, if I did everything right, is that the base is not long enough, making it harder for the rim to hold onto the plug.

I still find it a cute novelty item, and hopefully I will get the chance to do some better testing (with a partner perhaps)?

Noje Mini Wand Attachments

I got sent the attachments to the review item I reviewed in July of this year. I enjoyed the mini wand and was excited to try the attachments. They are made of smooth silicone, so they are easily cleaned and sterilized.

There are two attachments, both with dual purposes. The forked like attachment is called the “hugger,” meant to hug the the nipple or clitoris. My favorite attachment was the one with the flat edge and the “button.”

The flat edge acts as kind of a tease/tickler. It was definitely a different sensation. It was not long before I was using the other side of the attachment that gave very pinpoint stimulation. Overall, these are great attachments to such a good mini wand. I will definitely be keeping these within east reach when using my mini wand.

Thank you so much Peepshow Toys for the chance to review these toys!

 

TMI Tuesday – Past, Future, and Present

Let’s do this thing–TMI Tuesday.

​1. What do you think about when you’re alone in your car? 

In my car or not, I am most always thinking about Aaron, my boyfriend. I replay the times we share together, and plan the future. Never have I ever felt so amazing, loved, and adored by one human being. It is a new feeling and I am rather addicted to it.

2. What advice do you have for your previous lover?

Don’t be afraid to open up, and communication is key. If you aren’t attracted to someone, you should not date them. Also, don’t be a dick. Don’t be nice in the beginning then turn into a dick. Just don’t.

3. What  inspires you?

To be completely honest, Aaron inspires me. He inspires me to get out of bed in the morning, and is my rock when I am having a rough day at work. He makes me want to strive to be a better person, both inside and out, physically and emotionally. Once finances allow, I plan to quit buying crap for food and getting the healthy stuff. I want to better my body and be healthy. Not just for myself, but for him and our future.

4. If you were to get rid of one person in your life, who would it be and why?

Honestly, I am pretty happy with who I have in my life. I have a few close friends, I have Aaron, and I have a few family members. The most toxic person in my life moved away and we no longer talk.

5. How do you cope when your level of sexual desire doesn’t match your partners? 

This question I know the answer all too well. Until Aaron, everyone I dated had little to no sex drive. It was tough, I will not lie. There was a lot of masturbation that helped get me through.

Bonus:  Are you single, why? Are you married, why?

I am neither single nor married. I am in the best boyfriend/girlfriend relationship that I have ever had. Why? Because I met an amazing man that I can share anything with, and he can with me. The communication we share is amazing, as is all the other things we have in common.

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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!

Happy TMI Tuesday!