Bored

I am getting so damn bored with the whole dating thing. Salien messaged me the other night saying that it was nice meeting me, but we just want different things. He said that I would make someone very happy someday.

Honestly, I wasn’t surprised when he sent me that text. I actually kind of expected it, since I noticed from his texts that he wasn’t that into it anymore. Plus, I have noticed a pattern of first dates, a bit more talking, then never meeting again, eventually not talking. Either I got stood up, or they stopped talking. I was honest with him and told him I expected that. We texted a bit more, until after a while he said he was going to bed  and would text me later. I haven’t heard from him since. I am giving him his space and seeing if he will text me.

The next day in a last attempt, I made another Craigslist post. I got a few emails, talked to a few people, then deleted the ad. I am just getting so sick and tired of talking about myself, hearing basically the same thing about other people. It is so fucking boring having the same conversation over and over again. So I deleted the post. Plus, half the people that sounded decent saw my picture, never to be heard from again, another thing I am used to.

So, I don’t know what to do. I know I need to stop looking for a while. They say love will happen when you aren’t looking for it. I just feel like if I stop looking, it won’t find me. I mean, the last people that I have been with I seeked them out, not the other way around.

2 Replies to “Bored”

  1. Where are you looking? I never had any luck on Craigslist myself. For slutty NSA fun I had small success on Adult Friend Finder, but it was OKCupid where I finally met Mrs. AP. There’s mixed success everywhere.

    What about finding some local groups of people with similar interests to yours? Through FetLife, for example, Mrs. AP and I have found 3 or 4 groups who do informal weekly or monthly meetings just to get together with new and old friends; we want to start attending some of them once we finish settling in to our new place.

    Best of luck with it all. I’ll send good vibes your way. ^_^

  2. I have a paid account on match.com (worst money i ever spent), and an account on plenyoffish and okcupid. As far as weekly meets and stuff, i live in a tiny community so i am not sure if they have those. I will defnitely check out fetlife though.

Give me some love.