Poll – How Should I Document My 100th Orgasm?

So my 100th orgasm is fast approaching and I am wondering if and how I should document it somehow. I think that should be up to you, the reader. Take a vote in the poll below and on the right. I would love to do what I can to please.

TMI Tuesday – Gettin’ Off

This week’s TMI Tuesday questions are about gettin’ off. When you need it, you just gotta get it anyway you can.  (For those who are innocent babies “IT” is sex)

Gettin’ Off

1. Have you ever initiated a booty call?

I have actually, very recently in fact. I texted D and asked for birthday sex a couple of weeks ago. It was awesome.

2. Have you ever accepted a booty call?

I have, and too many times by the wrong person. I let Toby pressure me into a lot of things before I realized he was never interested in me, just my holes.

3. Ever had a “friend with benefits” relationship? How long did it last? Are you still
friends or acquaintances with that person? Are you still having sex with that friend?

I would definitely count D as a FWB. He was my friend, and there were occasional benefits. It was never a booty call thing with him. We rarely talk and I miss that, hopefully that will change someday, when he is not so busy and we can pick up where we left off. The sex with him is great.

4. Tell us about your best one-night stand, what made it so good?

I have actually never really had a one night stand. I have always got with someone at least twice.

5. When was your last one-night stand?

Again, never had a true one night stand, as stated above.

6. What’s the grimiest, dirtiest place that you’ve had sex?

Lol, probably Leah’s place. I mean, her and The T cleaned the room up somewhat, but that place was pretty nasty. I feel bad for saying that.

Bonus: What’s the one random thing you wish your friends knew about you?

My friends know me pretty well (though half of them wish they didn’t know me that well).

How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!
Happy TMI Tuesday!


I never really listened to podcasts until a few weeks ago. I just never found anything I liked. I did listen to one by a romance writer but stopped after she just reposted the old stuff with a few edits here and there (with only 9 casts or so total). Finally, I found some podcasts I can’t get enough of.

The first one I found by reading about other bloggers listening to the podcasts. Masocast. is great. I personally have not done anything kinky (this cast is all about it), but it makes me want to explore and experiment. I love the interviews that he has with fellow bloggers, doms, and more. I feel like I learn a lot from this cast.

The other podcasts I discovered is Wholesome Addiction. These guys are awesome. They talk all things sex (and if you know me, I can relate to a lot of the stuff they mention). I first found out about them when I was browsing through Bi_and_Bi’s blog. I love the stories they talk about, their sense of humor matches mine (very pervy), and they are just funny.

I am so glad I found these podcasts. They have both entertained and enlightened me.

TMI Tuesday – Pain and Pleasure

This week’s TMI Tuesday theme and questions come from Bi and Bi.
Pain and Pleasure
1. Which do you enjoy more in bed, pain or pleasure?

I definitely prefer pleasure, both giving and receiving. The only time I have experienced pain during sexual activities was from things that shouldn’t have been painful.

2. Do you like being tickled during sex? Where?

I am not sure on this one. Probably not, though I think it could make a good foreplay. I am way too ticklish and squirm around a lot.

3. Have you ever used feathers during sex?

I haven’t, though I think it could be super fun.

4. Do you like to be blindfolded during sex? Why?

I think I would enjoy this (it hasn’t happened yet sadly). Being blindfolded is big on my fantasy wishlist.

5. Have you ever used cold or heat as part of your sex play? What provided the cold or heat?

I have not, but I would love to try it sometime. I would love to have ice and a warm drink on hand and switch between the two when giving oral.

6. Do you enjoy being spanked, giving spankings, or both?

I think I am gonna have to say no on this one. I do enjoy giving and receiving little playful spanks that you can barely feel, but heavy spanking kind of scares me.

7. Do you have a safeword? Have you ever used it?

I once had the safeword of “tricycle” during a threesome, but none of us ever used it. It more became an inside joke between the three of us to remind us of the good time.

Bonus: Tell us in 3-4 sentences the most painful or pleasurable sexual experience you have had.

The most pleasurable, yet almost painful sexual experience is when I had that g-spot orgasm. I was laughing and crying all at once. The pleasure was so intense it almost hurt, I felt like exploding at one point.

How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!
Happy TMI Tuesday!

Reader Question – What Do I Think of the Male P-Spot

I got another reader question, this time asking me what I thought about the male p-spot (prostate).

If that is something my partner is into or wants to try, I would definitely give it a shot. I mean, its not something that gets me super excited, but I am all for trying things at least once. Who knows, I might end up loving it.

I have never stuck my finger up a guy’s ass, or anything for that matter. I have however played a bit with Forbidden Fruit’s ass a bit, but never penetrated. We came close to using a dildo and my strap on on him, but the dildo was too bendy and would not insert. I definitely like the idea of wearing my strap on and fucking him from behind though.

I find it fascinating that a guy can cum just from prostate stimulation, and an even stronger one than a regular orgasm too. That’s pretty hot.

Sinful Sunday – Firsts

I have always wanted to join in on the Sinful Sunday fun, but as I don’t take very many pictures I was never really motivated to. Last week however, I got my first sex bruise. I was quite proud of it when I got it, so I figured what better way to post it than to show it in my first Sinful Sunday.

At one point when D was grabbing my tits and feeling me up and sucking them, I felt a bit of pain that felt almost good. I got home to find a nice bruise on my left breast.


The night of

Two nights later

Three nights later


Sinful Sunday

Sound Clip – Crazy

On May 26, 2009 I wrote about the brief time my best girl friend explored her curiosities with me. That had to be one of the most erotic and frustrating experiences all at once. I decided to record it (as a request from a reader to hear my voice). I personally have hated hearing the sound of my voice, as I got made fun of in school for having kind of a husky/masculine voice, especially when recorded (answering machaine, speaker phone (which I cannot stand speaker phone. I will get off if you don’t take me off). <-That sadly had no sexual pun.

Anyways, you can read along with the recording here, and click below to hear my read it to you.

Birthday Sex

Eight days before my birthday and I could not stop thinking about how horny I was and how long it had been since the last time I had sex. It had been over 5 months and I missed it. I became determined to have sex on or near my birthday.

I spent a couple days thinking about it, and decided to text D, even though we hadn’t spoken in months because he has been so busy. I may have sounded a little bit blunt in my message:

Me: I have the 9th-17th off from work and my birthday is the 14th. Any of those days do you think we could hang out, even possibly have sex? I would love to give you a bj.

Him: Maybe, let me check my schedule

Me: Lol, sorry if that seemed a bit blunt.

Him: Lol, it’s fine, good to know your intentions

We chatted a bit back and forth, talking about how the other one was doing, what we’ve been up to. A few texts later he went to bed.

A few days later he texted me about this coming Saturday night. I said I was free and he asked me to come over to his place around 9:30 and bring condoms. I couldn’t help but have a small hope that things would turn into another threesome with his roommate, though I was happy with the idea of just him.

Saturday morning was finally here and he texted me. He said he had a fun idea for that night and to show up at his work instead. I was a bit nervous the rest of the day, stomach doing somersaults every time I tried to guess what he had in mind. I guessed that he either wanted to have sex outside in the woods around his workplace or even inside his work. Scary, paranoid thoughts crossed my mind all day.

I was getting antsy the longer I waited, trying to kill time. I took a shower, brushed and flossed my teeth, shaved, rinsed and dried off, slowly got dressed (taking pics while I did so for your viewing pleasure). It was finally time to go.

As I was about 5 minutes away (and right on time), he texted me to let me know he was all set up. The road was dark and I was having a hard time judging where his work might be, but eventually I saw it and pulled up in time before passing it. He told me to follow his car. We drove about 30 feet, behind the building and came up to an old, abandoned looking house.

We parked our cars, turned them off, and got out. He said that this was the house he was working on in his spare time. The first thing he did was come up and give me a hug, then began kissing me the way I love to be kissed; lots of sucking on my bottom lip. After a few great seconds of kissing he led me to the porch where there was a lit candle waiting. He picked up the candle and opened the door, letting me go first so that I had light to see my way. Once we stepped inside he said that my surprise was up stairs and pointed the way, holding the candle so that I could see.

As I climbed the stairs I was reminded of a movie I used to love as a kid (and still do) called Teen Witch. In the movie there is a scene where she goes on a hike with her crush and they end up at an abandoned house that has candles lighting the way up the stairs to a bedroom with a mat in the middle. The room was lined with candles and the couple made love. Obviously as a (pre)teen movie, they did not show anything graphic, but it was obvious what they were doing.

Everything seemed so identical, minus the candlelit stairs, the hike, and the “couple.” D followed closely behind me and asked me what I thought. I said I loved it and told him about how it reminded me of that movie. He said he wanted to make it memorable, since I mentioned my birthday was approaching.

The chatting didn’t last long, as I was soon in his arms, kissing each other, nibbling on our necks and running our hands over each other. I felt his hard cock press into me and I reached down and stroked the massive bulge in his jeans.

He gently eased me onto the makeshift mat/sofa seat. Once I was sitting down and comfortable he pulled his huge cock out of his pants for me to suck. The place I was sitting was the perfect height to let me suck him for a long time comfortably without any neck strain.

I sucked for at least 10-15 minutes, varying my rhythm, pace, and sucking. I wrapped my left hand around the base and put my right hand around the back of his thigh, pulling him somewhat closer. I went from licking around his head to taking as much of his cock as I could into my mouth. Every so often I would lift my eyes to see the look of pleasure on his face.

Eventually he pulled me up and we started kissing and nibbling some more, all the while getting our shirts off. He began to feel my tits, then pulling them out of their cups in the negligee I was wearing to suck on my nipples. It amazed me how much sensation I felt, since before the piercings I used to feel nothing. He went from my right tit to my left and sucked on it, massaging with his hand the breast that was not in his mouth.

Eventually all his clothes were off and I was just in my negligee and thong. I grabbed the condoms out of my purse (they were in a tupperware to prevent breakdown) and set them to the side for later. He sat down on an edge of seat and pulled me down to him where he wrapped his arm around me to kiss some more. He ran his hand up my leg and began rubbing his fingers on my crotch, eventually pulling the thong aside and fingering me while rubbing my wetness over my clit.

D scooted back on the makeshift bed and layed down, his cock completely exposed and asked me to “give him some more of that great head.” I was more than happy to do so and sat down at the end and wrapping my left hand around him again. Using my right hand for support, I bent my head down and went back to work.

I started by licking the tip of his head, then slowly took his cock into my mouth inch by inch. I started a slow bob of my head, then once I had a good rhythm, I sped up, all the while massaging my tongue onto his base. I practiced trying to relax my throat to take in more of him, but I couldn’t hold it for very long. I went back to licking, sucking, and massaging with my tongue.

After another good ten minutes and trying to not kill my wrist that was supporting me, I changed positions. While doing so he sat up and kissed me more, this time exploring my mouth with his tongue. I rubbed my tongue along his, taking in his hungry kisses. Once I was settled in my position, I went back to sucking his cock.

This position was not as comfortable as the last, and my left wrist felt weaker than my right, making it harder to support myself with it. I ignored the lack of comfort and put the most I have ever put into a blowjob, not knowing when the next time might be that I have a cock in my mouth. I relished in hearing his moans of encouragement, looking up at him when he made a sound.

With probably a good 30-45 minutes of sucking all together, it was time to have sex. He stood up and helped me up so that I could get out of my thong. We decided that he would get me warmed up by being on top first, then we would switch. While he stood in front of my I slid the condom on.

I leaned back on the makeshift bed and he climbed on top. My legs naturally wrapped around him as he slid his cock into my now very wet pussy. He started with slow thrusts, but quickly sped up. It felt so good having him inside me, pounding my pussy. He had to keep slowing down to pace himself, since I got him so worked up with that blowjob.

Each thrust landed deep inside me and I felt it in my cervix because of his size. There was more pleasure than hurt though, as each hit made me clench tighter, feeling closer and closer to a climax. I felt myself building, but I just could not reach that peak.

Eventually D reached his climax, even with him pacing himself. I told him how good that was, we got dressed, toured the rest of the house, chatted a bit more, then went our seperate ways after one last hug and kiss.

I treated this sex like it was the last time for a long time. I have no idea when I will do anything again, but I am ok with that. This was definitely a memorable enough experience that I will be sexually satisfied for a while. D said that when he is done with the house then he will have more time to hang out. That will be nice, but he’s still got a lot to do.

Either way, this goes down in my mind as one of the best experiences I have ever had. Thanks D!

TMI Tuesday – Any Regrets?

Thank you to ‘Rants from the Erotic Rogue‘ for this week’s TMI Tuesday.

Any Regrets?

Looking back on our lives, we can have a mix of reactions to the things we’ve done. When it comes to sex, our memories can color us with pride, fondness, nostalgia, indifference, or all too often, regret.
This week’s TMI Tuesday questions delve into things that people typically regret later in life. How much do you regret, if at all, any of the following?

**Note- Sorry it’s a bit late, had something already scheduled for Tuesday. I will note that I have never believed in regrets, as I feel that anything that happens is a learning experience in some way or another, opening doors to even better experiences. **

1. Do you regret how you “lost” your virginity? If yes, why and to whom would you have preferred to have lost it?

As I said in my note above, I don’t really believe in regrets, but my first time really sucked, and not in the good way. The person did not care about me in the way that I wanted, but I always wanted to give him a chance. In some ways I feel disappointed that Toby was my first, but in other ways I am glad that it wasn’t with an ex because in some ways I would still be attached. However, I do know that if it had been with a boyfriend at the time, it would have been a much more special and memorable experience. However, I think if I had waited for my first time to be with a boyfriend, I don’t think I would have had the courage to have the awesome sex experiences that I have had.

2. Have you ever lived a moment in your life where you said “Yeah, I’m not going to ever tell anyone about that.” Describe that moment or incident.

Honestly, with all my sexual experiences, I have always been eager to write about it on my blog, no matter how horrid/funny/embarrassing it might have been. That’s what the blog is for, right?

3. Do you regret having acted on a sexual impulse? If yes, please describe.

I have never regretted, but I have felt guilty. A time in particular was the first time I hooked up with D in the woods behind our college campus when I didn’t even know his name at the time. Luckily though, I no longer feel guilty about that experience, and in fact think of it as one of my favorites.

4. Do you regret not having had sex with someone who you could have had sex? If yes, would you do it over and have sex?

I almost, key work almost, wish I had had sex with Ex#4, as I know he would have made it special, and probably way better than Toby. However, I am more glad that I didn’t because I don’t think I would have left him from being so attached (even though I was miserable in the end).

5. Do you regret not having asked out or tried to hook up with someone you really liked out of fear of rejection only to later learn that person wanted you, too? If yes, please describe.

Actually, no I have not. I have had sex with the people that I have wanted to (and even some I didn’t really want to), but never have I really missed out. No one has really wanted me if I was interested in them. I know that sounds terrible, but its kinda true.

6. Do you regret having done a particular sex act? If yes, please describe.

As I have said several times, I really don’t believe in regret. I see all of my sexual times as learning experiences, either learning what not what to do or what I could do better for next time.

Bonus: Do you regret not having told someone you love them? Romantic, not familial or friendship love.

I have always been pretty honest about my feelings of love. I more wish I hadn’t told some people at the time that I loved them, but to be fair at that time I thought I really did think/feel that I loved them at the time. Love is funny that way. It clouds judgments, and each new love seems stronger and more true than the last.

How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!
Happy TMI Tuesday!