TMI Tuesday – The Big O

This week’s theme “Orgasms” and the questions are brought to you by Naughty Tashamber. <- That’s me!!  😀

The Big O

1 – Do you remember your first orgasm? How old were you? Tell us about it.

I do. I was 17 and playing with my first vibrator, rubbing it on my clit. I actually squirted. I had no idea what happened to me. I thought I had peed myself, and didn’t learn otherwise until a couple years later when I started reading sex blogs.

2 – What is your favorite way to orgasm? (Sex, g-spot/p-spot, oral, etc).

Probably clitorally, since that is the only type that I know as of yet. I liked the one gspot orgasm I had, though.

3 – Are there any ways you want to experience an orgasm but haven’t yet? (oral, p-spot/g-spot, with or without a vibrator, squirt, etc).

I would love to explore g-spot orgasms, as I have only had that one. I would also love to be able to orgasm without a vibrator and squirt again. I would especially love to orgasm from oral.

4 – Have you ever had an orgasm in your sleep?

I have not, but I think I came close. I had sex dream after sex dream that night, and in the last dream I was grinding my clit against everything. I got extremely close to orgasm in the dream, but right before I did I woke up having to pee really bad. Not sure what would have happened if I hadn’t woke up, though I knew it would have been a literal “wet dream.”

5 – What is the easiest/fastest way for you to have an orgasm?

So far the easiest and (only) way to reach orgasm is a vibrating bullet on my clit. I love bullets because they are cheap and they get the job done fast.

6 – How many times a week do you try to reach orgasm?

I masturbate at least twice a week, leading to my orgasm.

7 – Have you ever had an orgasm at the same time as your partner? Who normally cums first?

I have during mutual masturbation. I found it incredibly hot, but was always torn between watching his face and watching the cum shoot from his cock. The guy always cums first during sex and I have my orgasm later when I am alone.

8 – Can you have multiples?

I have and they are awesome. The most I have had in one night was seven in two hours. It was bliss.

9 – How long does it normally take you to reach orgasm?

Lately it has taken over half an hour, but on average it takes about 10-15 minutes. I have gotten off in three minutes once.

10 – Have you ever faked one?

I have. I was with The T and Leah. I was having sex with The T while Leah watched. She kept assuming I was close, and finally I just “did” to make her stop. The T knew and asked me when she left. He understood my reasons. I don’t like the idea of faking it because it gives the partner a false sense on what to do.

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11 Replies to “TMI Tuesday – The Big O”

  1. Great questions! I enjoyed answering them.

    I love bullets, too, though they can be frustrating to work with at times!

    ~Kazi xxx

  2. it’s always a bit surreal answering your own questions, huh? i found that out last week. nice questions, thanks for the submission. oh, absolutely great comic strip, one of the best-written i’ve read in awhile 🙂

  3. I loved the questions! Well done. Bullet vibes are AWESOME! My favorite toy prior to the Hitachi purchase.

    I’m curious why you don’t have an orgasm while with a partner and wait until you’re alone.

  4. I also appreciated the question, and like bullets. I’ve mostly given them up, though. They don’t last long for me motor wise, really eat batteries, and the cord can be problematic. I have a great wand-massager-vibrator. Sometimes it’s unwieldly, and that cord can be problematic as well, but NOTHING beats toys that plug into the wall. Or are rechargeable. 😀

    The first time I ejaculated surprised me as well. I thought I’d peed! It was a large area, with a weird smell. I did some research, and when I understood that it came from the urethra although NOT urine I understood better.

    That wasn’t the first time I’d ejaculated, but the first time I realized. A friend went down on me one night. We were both exhausted, and while I initiated I was only half awake and it was kind of a dream state. I came SO hard and SO long, my legs were wobbly for at least half an hour. I could barely get to the bathroom to pee and clean up. When I realized that I could/did sometimes ejaculate, I asked him if I had done so that night. I hadn’t known. He told me that yes, I had, which helped him know that he had done his job correctly. And that as a gentleman, HE had slept in the wet spot,

    I’m honestly not sure if that’s the same as “squirting” though. I think of “squirting” as what you see in porno and online novice stuff. Not the massive almost urination I experience. I suppose it could be a matter of angle, positioning, and muscles. IDK. Something to ask Jill, perhaps?

    I’m sorry to hear though that ‘the guy always cums first, and I have my orgasm later when alone’. I think you need more giving lovers. Many times a woman JUST can’t get there. It has to do with stress, mood, hormones, et al. It’s ONE thing for that to happen. It’s also one thing to have your partner do his/her best to help you get there, and you just can’t. Sometimes then, I do/have told him to take his pleasure. But if he REALLY isn’t trying to get you there, regularly if not as often as possible (because we all have selfish days), than I don’t think he’s that great.

    Thanks for the Qs and great answers!

  5. Thanks for the questions and the comment on my blog as it helped me discover yours. Lovely answers! Grrrrrr it seems that I am the lady who can’t have multiple orgasms. I too would love to experience more g spot orgasms. I like how you are keeping count of your orgasms this year lol.

    I’m looking forward to reading your previous and upcoming posts. I may not always comment but you can be assured that I will be reading.

  6. Thank you very much for this week’s TMI Tuesday questions.

    3. I want to orgasm from oral given to me by a woman. I have made women orgasm via my oral skills.

    4. The feeling of having to urinate can be actually the build up and pressure of needing to squirt. This is a very good book on the subject: Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot. I heard the author give a presentation and demonstration and she autographed my book. Very informative talk.

    10. “I don’t like the idea of faking it because it gives the partner a false sense on what to do.” So very true, so I use it sparingly…lol. Haven’t had to “fake it” in a long while thank gawd.

    -H

  7. These were great questions because I wanted to know what everyone else would say and I wanted to answer them – a rare combo! I adored hearing all the different perspectives. Thanks!

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