The last few days I have been working on a jigsaw puzzle. I found it to be very therapeutic and a nice change from my usual daily grind. I love the click the pieces make when you place the right ones together I love the feeling of starting with very little and ending up with a huge masterpiece. I finally finished it tonight.
More questions about every TMI-er’s favorite topic courtesy of recusen.
Every sexual experience is an adventure.
2. What is your view of spontaneous vs. planned sex?
a) Spontaneous is always better.
b) Spontaneous sex seems rushed to me. I prefer a little warning to prepare mentally and/or physically.
c) I enjoy the anticipation before planned sex.
d) In my life circumstances, planning is required.
Both have their appeal. I like planned because I can prepare physically. I also like spontaneous as it can be extremely hot exciting.
3. At the beginning of sex, what is your most immediate worry?
a) It will take too long.
b) It will be over too soon.
c) You will be interrupted.
d) You will fail to please your partner.
e) Your partner will fail to please you.
f) Something will cause pain.
g) There is gong to be a discussion/argument about something.
I always worry about not pleasing my partner.
4. At the beginning of sex, what happy result are you looking forward to most?
a) Pure physical pleasure and orgasm.
b) Pure emotional pleasure at being intimate with your partner.
c) Pleasing your partner.
d) A feeling of closeness to your partner afterward.
e) Not being so horny afterward.
Pure physical pleasure and the adrenaline that is pumping through me the whole time. I have learned to never expect an orgasm for myself.
5) After sex, how long until you start looking forward to the next time?
I look forward to it right after. I am never completely satisfied. Someday I hope that changes.
Bonus: Your ideal date would be
a. pizza and a movie
b. hot dog and a ball game
c. picnic and a bike ride
d. candlelight dinner
Both A and D sound awesome.
Never in my life did I ever see myself wearing a two piece swimsuit. This weekend I was on a mission to find a swim suit, thinking it would be just another one piece. I was fine with that, in fact that’s what I was focusing my search on. I was disappointed that I had no luck until I found a two piece that actually fit.
Ponder THIS , Ponder THAT
1. My _____ is so beautiful it should be in a museum but my _____ probably belongs in a pawn shop.
2. I would most like to take a class in _____ .
3. Excluding people or pets, what is your most prized possession?
My collection of high tech sex toys.
4. Which of the following best describes the type of person to whom you are attracted?
c. Sweet n innocent
Sweet ‘n innocent.
5. What is the first thing you do when you get home from work?
Take off my clothes and put on comfy ones.
6. What is the last foolish thing you did with someone else?
I tend to do a lot of drunk texting.
Bonus: Cucumber or zucchini?
I have been learning to do things on my own lately. My parents (mostly my mom) instilled so much paranoia in me, that it has been difficult to do anything alone. I always felt like I needed to have someone at my side at all times and hold my hand (in a figurative way). However, things are changing now.
This weekend I have the apartment to myself. I used to hate it, as we have some scary things happen here when we first moved in. Now though? I love it. It’s quiet, and I can do what I want, like walk around naked. Today I ended up going to the movies to myself.
Next weekend I am going out of town. I am taking a 3 hour drive to the nearest “big” city and staying for two nights. First off, its a very treacherous drive. Sharp turns, windy roads, and unforgiving mountain cliffs. I booked my first hotel room and will be driving in said city a lot. I have ridden there as a passenger many times, but drove in it once. I am not a fan, but I need to get over my fears.
I will mostly be visiting a friend from high school that I haven’t seen in over seven years. I also might do lunch with a guy I have been talking to on a dating site. If we hit it off, I may invite him to the room. I am very torn though. A part of me loves getting some action, both for mood and something to write about here, but I also am unsure how much I trust the guy. That is why we will definitely do lunch first, but we will see.
I am very excited to get out of town, do some real shopping, and seeing an old friend. Be prepared for hotel room pics! 😉
1. How long have you been blogging?
Off and on since September 2008.
2. Tell us about your pen name? Is it a pen name?
Pit took forever to think of it I have went by several different blogging names, but this one is the one that stuck the most I always described myself as a sweetheart, but also a huge dirty girl. I am Sweeten Dirty, but you can call me Sweets.
3. What is your blog about?
It is a sex blog. I blog about real life experiences, toy reviews, and erotica
4. Do you earn any money with your blog?
I have not yet, but I do have affiliate links (so far just good vibes, go check them out)
5. What inspired you to blog?
I honestly made it so that I could review free toys, but it has turned into so much more than that it’s my journal now, something to look back on
6. What keeps you blogging?
The knowledge that I can look back later, remember the fun times in clear memory, and even get advice and confidence boosts
7. Do you have any advice for readers looking for love? Looking to get laid? Looking for a threesome?
know your boundaries and stick to them. Never settle for what you think might be the only thing. No sex is by far better than bad sex.
8. Did you do your kegels today? When was the last time you did them? (Men: There is no evidence that kegels prevent erectile dysfunction. Source: WebMD )
I did at work, but thanks for the home reminder, I am doing them now.
Bonus: Do you have any special sexual gifts or talents or tricks? Tell us about it.
I can give a damn good blow job.