Product Review – Quad Silicone Whip

The Quad Silicone Whip was one of those things that I saw and had to have. I had never heard of it until I saw it in a list of available toys to review. I had been curious about getting something for whipping and trying it out with the boyfriend, and also it had been a while since I got a new dildo. The Quad Silicone Whip is a two in one, with a dildo handled silicone whip. The perfect two in one. I received this toy free from Good Vibes in exchange for my unbiased and honest review.

The Whipping End

The whip is made with four silicone strands with small weights at each end. With  a light stroke there is not much to feel, which is good for a beginner like me. For the more experienced, a harder stroke is ideal. However, one thing that we did notice was that the weights at the end needed to make contact to really leave a sting. The handle is very comfortable to hold. I love the feel of the soft silicone and the ridges make nice grips.

The Dildo End

The dildo is made of velvety soft silicone. There is not a whole lot of squish to it (though there is some) and it is not very flexible. There is a hint of a flared base, but I would not recommend this toy as anal safe due to the fact that there is such a small degree of flare (a lot less than toys that have a very prominent flared base).

All Together

From end to end, the Quad Silicone is 18 inches long. The insertable handle is 5 1/2 inches long, with the widest insertable diameter being 1 5/8 inches. Overall I feel like this is the perfect 2 in 1 toy. Thank you Good Vibes for letting me try this!


TMI Tuesday – Shame

Over the weekend I found these questions from Heelsnstocking in a very old email. The questions are great. I cannot believe they were not already published here on TMI Tuesday blog but my search did not find them. So here we go…Shame.


1. Tell us a sexual thing/fantasy would you never want your friends to know you like or have done?

I am still kind of embarrassed at my fetish/curiosity with pee. I may have mentioned it in a joking manor to test the waters with friends and potential partners, but they usually scoff in disgust so I play it safe and say I am joking.

2. Has anyone ever found an item of sexy underwear, a sex toy or perhaps a picture on your phone that embarrassed you?

Yes! On my 18th birthday I was home alone and was not allowed to go out or have friends over because my mom was out of town. I decided to spend my alone time masturbating. However, my friends decided to surprise me with pizza and cake. I couldn’t turn them away, so I let them in. Eventually they convinced me to leave the house to go to another friend’s house and one friend went to find and get my socks.

They found my socks, but not before finding my vibrator I had hastily thrown in my drawer when my unexpected company arrived. I was a little embarrassed, but that’s what they get for looking through my drawers.

3. Do you have any fantasies you could never go through with because you think you would feel ashamed?

Lately I have had a bit of a rape fantasy. I am terrified to touch on that one, even on here. I am unsure if I could ever play it out or even really write it out.

4. Have you ever felt shame after a sexual experience?

Pretty much every time I hooked up with Toby, back when I was first becoming sexually active. I always felt so used and alone after, yet kept letting him come back because curiosity got the best of me.

Bonus:  Share a recent non-sexual moment of shame.

Pretty much every time I make a small error at work during data entry.

Double Bonus: Share a recent sexual moment of shame.

The other night I took some boob pictures and sent them to the boyfriend. They went completely ignored, though he said he got them (when I asked a day later). Nothing else was said, no thanks, or please don’t send those again. I am a little hurt, and I have been building up to have a very serious talk with him.


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Happy TMI Tuesday!