Kink of the Week – Hand Spanking

To be completely honest, I am not too into hand spanking (or any kind of spanking). It just doesn’t really feel good to me, especially the harder swats. Now, that does not mean that I am completely against it, there is just a really fine line for me.

That said, I absolutely love the playful little spanks, both giving and receiving. I find it a huge shock (and compliment) when a partner suddenly grabs or lightly spanks my ass. It can also be hot hot or twice during sex if done lightly.

I can’t really think of a time when spanking was used a lot. Thinking back, I really only got a thrill out of it when it was used in a playful manner, and only even then when I was in the middle of sexless relationships and that was the only physical interaction I got. I learned to take what I could get and thrive off of that. It is kind of sad when you think about it.

I think it is great that others can get such a thrill out of it, and I do admire them when there are marks left over from their own spankings.

sub-Bee 2017-10-04 12:42:29
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Playful spanks are always good fun. But I’m glad you had an alternative viewpoint, we can’t all enjoy the same thing and that is perfectly ok :-)

Molly 2017-10-02 09:10:04
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I think impact play is where I get my kicks, the thrill, the fight, the rush, all works for me Mollyx

May 2017-09-25 11:09:31
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For me its that where sex is concerned i am a bit of an adrenaline junky so i like to be spanked, whipped - lots of stuff - you read my blog ;-) But I don't crave adrenaline any where else in my life, such as scary rides or hand gliding - not for me. I like my feet on the ground ...

Floss 2017-09-25 01:19:23
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I love playful spanks (as well as the firmer ones too), but I probably get more of the playful ones at the moment and they do always make feel a bit giggly and smiley. I neglected the playful spanks in my own post, but this is a great reminder that they really can be a lot of fun 🙂 Floss