TMI Tuesday – Valentine’s Day (Almost)

1. Tell us two reasons why you would stay in a bad relationship.

From past experience, the only reason I did stay in bad relationships was for one main reason and that was fear of being along. I had several other reasons, like I was more attached to his cat, or I was afraid I would crush him too much than I was already feeling crushed. All very horrible reasons, but that is why I stayed. I am glad to be moved past all of that.

I really feel like I have found the relationship I have always wanted and more. We can tell each other anything and no longer fear scaring the other off. The sex is amazing, and we can be silly together, even during sex. I couldn’t be happier. Aaron is amazing and I love him. đŸ˜€

2. Do you wish your private life was kinkier?

Honestly, no. I mean, we definitely have a to do list of things we want to try together, but we are in no rush to do so. I am happy, happier than I have ever been, and happier than I ever could have imagined possible.

3. Tell us about your weirdest sexual experience.

Honestly, I could not tell you. I don’t think I have ever had a “weird” sexual experience. Lots of uncomfortable ones yes, but never weird.

4. Can you have a totally hands-free orgasm?

Yes and no. Mostly nom but I have been able to do this thing where I can relax my whole body and have a mini orgasm. I don’t feel the sexual side effects, but I do get the change in heart rhythm and breathing. It is a very weak one, and I much prefer boyfriend and toy induced orgasms.

5. What tips can you give for staying hard (you personally or keeping your partner hard)?

Don’t overstimulate it, but don’t understimulate it. Give it a little bit of attention every so often, but don’t give it so much attention that it gets tired.

Bonus: Is it okay to not celebrate Valentine’s Day even though you have a partner? Why or why not?

I say yes, because I feel like Valentine’s day is a commercial holiday. I feel like it has lost it’s meaning for a lot of couples. That said, I will definitely be celebrating this year because it is our first one together, and our five month mark is just two days before. That, and it marks the 6 month mark to my birthday.