TMI Tuesday – Important Questions

TMI Tuesday time–time to answer these…

Important Questions

1. If you are on facebook, when was the last time you had to “unfriend” someone and why?

I unfriended a guy I went on a couple of dates with, The best way to describe him would be toxic. He made me feel like shit about myself, and my priorities (work). He had some major issues.

2. What are you addicted to?

Masturbation and sunflower seeds. Not at the same time of course. Oh, and caffeine.

3. What are the first 3 things you do every morning?

Look at my phone, use the bathroom, then get dressed.

4. How lucky are you and why?

I suppose that I am lucky in the fact that I have a good job, a roof over my head, and reliable transportation.

5. What is one thing you’re embarrassed to admit you want to try?

I do have kind of a curiosity about watersports play…I have mentioned it a few times here, but rarewly have I ever told a partner.

Bonus: Are you proud of what you are doing?

I am proud of this blog. This coming September it will be 9 years old. I am proud of putting myself out there and getting a better job at a place that I am much happier to work at.

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TMI Tuesday – Digging Deep

Yes, yes…here it is. Another TMI Tuesday.

Digging Deep

1. The last time you had sex, was it urgent or essential? Consider masturbation or sex with a partner.

Both. With a partner, it was urgent. I got him worked up by playing with and teasing his cock during a movie, as well as sucking on his fingers. The movie couldn’t finish fast enough. During masturbation, it was essential, and usually is with me.

2. What should you stop doing? Why?

I should stop being so insecure. I get anxious way too easily and tend to fret about little things. I need to learn to think positive and stay positive.

3. What makes you feel strongest? Sexiest?

This blog has helped make me strong, both with feedback, and a place I can share anything. Sadly, nothing has really made me feel sexy lately.

4. When do you feel vulnerable?

Dating. It gets harder and harder to put myself out there. I lucked out with my current boyfriend, as he took things slow, something that I needed.

5. What is missing from your sex life?

Sex itself, and intimacy. Something I miss greatly, but am willing to overlook their lack in my life because the companionship I am building now feels more important to me.

Bonus: If you left your current lover, what would you miss the most?

The companionship we have been building since we met. I am learning to trust again. I would miss the happy sound he makes when we kiss or I touch/rub/scratch his back. His kisses and cuddles are pretty amazing too.

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TMI Tuesday – Would You Rather…?

It’s another addition of TMI Tuesday “Would You Rather…?”

1. If you and your significant other played “sexual truth or dare” with other couples, would you rather watch your s.o. have sex with someone or would you prefer having sex with someone in front of your s.o.?

It depends. I really don’t like to share, and I don’t think he would either. However, if the other person he had sex with was male I might be more into it. I would feel more comfortable having sex with a woman than a man if my boyfriend was to watch. However, I would love a MMF thressome with him, so if he was to join I would much prefer that.

2. Would you rather watch your favorite porn with your sibling or read your favorite sexy erotica out loud to your parent(s)?

Honestly, none would really bother me. However, I have actually watched porn with one of my sister’s before, and that was hilarious. We had a lot of amusing commentary with it, and it was my first porn, so she was able to say “it doesn’t work like that in real life” when appropriate.

3. To get sexually aroused, would you rather watch girl on girl porn or guy on guy porn?

Guy on guy, as that is what I watch anyways.

4. Would you rather have sex with your boss, in an office conference room or masturbate at home knowing that your neighbor is watching?

Considering the fact that I work at a casino and there are cameras EVERYWHERE, I think I would prefer to masturbate with the neighbor watching, depending on the neighbor.

5. Based on your current mood, would you rather try out new and kinky sex ideas or have romantic sex?

Honestly, I would love the romantic sex, as it has been a long time for any type of sex.

Bonus: Would you rather have three kids and no money or no kids with three million dollars?

No kids and 3M dollars, definitely. I am kind of thinking I don’t want kids, though I am just not at a good point in my life to even consider kids.

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TMI Tuesday – Life, Dating, Body, and More

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Life: dating, your body and more

1. What period of your life was the happiest? Why?

I think my happiest period of my life (so far) was when I moved out of my mom’s and got a place with Will. I loved having him to come home to and talk to at the end of the day. I loved it even more when we got our own place without other roommates. That was a time when I felt certain about where I was going in life. Marriage and kids were next. We never got to that point, and my current relationship is a waiting game that only time will tell.

2. True or False. If you want a successful date, take charge–take the lead. Why?

I started to say false, but now I am thinking true. However, it really depends on the date. With my guy, I had to plan our first date, but once we got to talking, our conversation flowed equally.

3. True or false: Males are aggressive and assertive, and women are nurturing. Explain your answer.

False. I tend to find and meet men that are very gentle and indecisive. I am very nurturing however, though I know quite a few ladies who are not.

4. Is your body keeping you from a good sex life? How so?

I think so, but that is because I have poor self esteem. However, I don’t have the typically sought after body type. Most men that I have met are not into BBWs. I am not that flexible, and being bigger has required finding more creative positions in the bedroom. Lately I have had partners too lazy to try. They haven’t lasted long. Right now I am in my longest relationship since Will, but I can count the amount of times we have fooled around on one hand.

5. Smiles. Do you have a sexy smile that is different from your regular smile. Post a pic of your sexy smile or describe it for us?

I feel like I do have a nice smile when I have something to smile about. I especially love my smile after a few drinks, and that is when I tend to take the most “selfies.”

Bonus: May is Masturbation Month. Which of these is your best benefit from masturbating:
a. helps you to relax and/or fall asleep
b. boosts self-esteem
c. combats erectile dysfunction
d. helps you know what feels good so you can tell your sex partner

A combination of A, B, and D. C does not apply as I do not have a penis.

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TMI Tuesday – May Day

May Day

1. Today is couple appreciation day. What do you most appreciate about being a couple (consider current or past relationships)

I appreciate having someone there at the end of the day. I love sending him sweet good morning texts in hopes of making his day a little bit better. Hes been a bit scarce the last few weeks due to school, but I am hoping to have his undivided attention soon. I also appreciate the fact that that if I am having a bad day, he knows what to say to cheer me up.

2. It is also Global Love Day. How can you or how will you extend love today?

As I said above, I send a good morning text in hopes of brightening his day. We are not quite at the “I love you” stage, but maybe soonish? I don’t know, I already said it last month, though I am letting him think it was the alcohol since he didn’t reciprocate the feeling.

3. May 1 is loyalty day as well, originally it had to do with patriotism in the United States. That meaning aside, in what ways are you loyal?

I don’t give up on people easily. I give more chances than I should count. I don’t “cheat.” I guess I am also kind of a door mat, lol.

4. So it seems today is also Phone In Sick day. When is the last time you phoned in sick? Where you really sick? How did you spend the “sick” day?

Several years ago. Back in 2014. I was horribly sick. I couldn’t breathe, had to get a new inhaler and everything. I only call in when I am on my deathbed. Well, except the time that there were too many people scheduled and I just want to play video games. My coworkers thanked me.

5. May 1, 1840 the world’s first adhesive postage stamp was issued in the United Kingdom. Who would you like to see on a postage stamp?

Not who, but what. I would love to see x-rated postage stamps. Sadly, I don’t ever see that happening.

Bonus:  How was your first day of May?

Honestly it was kind of shitty. I hate coming to work after the weekend because there is 3 days of work rather than 1. It is always a clusterfuck, especially on the first.

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TMI Tuesday – Social Norms

TMI Tuesday…play it, enjoy it!

Times keep-a-changin’

1. Does your workplace have a “casual Friday” or a day when you can dress down or out of uniform?

My workplace does not. For my department we are required to wear office casual every day of the week. Sadly that means no jeans. Luckily, we are one of the few departments that does not require a uniform.

2. Has the growth of social media and unabashed sharing of personal info on social media made you MORE or LESS cautious about your privacy?

I am more cautious in some ways, like when it pertains to my  personal identity. Other ways, like blogging, I love to kiss and tell.

3. Is gay marriage legal where you live?

Yes.

4. Is smoking marijuana legal where you live? Under what circumstances?

Yes. Recreational and medical.

5. Give us a hashtag that best describes your weekend. Hashtag must be 15 letters or less.

#DogSittingForTheBF.

Bonus:  Have you ever stalked a celebrity? Who?

No, though I used to be obsessed with Justin Timberlake as a kid.

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Sinful Sunday – All of Me

I took some pictures a while ago, but never shared them. I kept them to myself. They showed more of me than I ever intended. Mostly I was afraid to show so much of me, but then I started to see them for the beautiful treats that they are. I have finally gathered the courage to share. Unfortunately it was long enough ago that I did not have my piercings. I have been unsuccessful at recreating  said pics.

 

 

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TMI Tuesday – Sexual Revelations

Let’s do this–TMI Tuesday.

Sexual Revelations

1. When did you see your first naked woman that was not a family member?

I am guessing that movies/magazines don’t count. In that case, I think I was about 20 when I started “experimenting” with my mom’s friend Sarah.

2. When did you see your first naked man that was not a family member?

The first live human male I saw naked that was not a family member was my first real boyfriend. We had just walked from the bus stop to my house in the pouring rain and were trying to dry off quicker bu removing our soaked clothes. I gave my first blowjob that day.

3. What were the circumstances of each situation?

Female – Sarah and I were messing around with my male friends on the webcam. Once she realized I was into it, we fooled around a bit further.

Male – The boyfriend and I had just walked from the bus stop to my house in the pouring rain and were trying to dry off quicker bu removing our soaked clothes. I gave my first blowjob that day.

4. At what age did you first witness sexual nudity? Was it online or in print?

I think I was about 9 when I saw Titanic and the famous drawing scene. That seemed sexual to me. After that I would try and find all the other movies we owned with nudity. I always got a thrill looking at them.

5. Sexual revolution–When was yours OR It hasn’t happened yet?

I think when I started going to college and started this blog in 2008. I was 20 years old, and started having more casual sex encounters.

Bonus: What’s the best sex advice or sex education book you’ve ever read? (Yes, it must be a book, could be online but a book)

The Guide to Getting it On was introduced to my human sexuality class in college. I ended up picking up my own copy that semester when Borders was still a thing.

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TMI Tuesday – This or That?

This week’s TMI questions are brought to you by yours truly! Enjoy!

This or That?

1 – Lights on or off? – I like them on so that I can see my partner as we are getting down and dirty, but I enjoy the intimacy of feeling each other in the dark.

2 – Slow teasing or getting right to business? – I enjoy a good slow tease. It gets me worked up and wetter than ever. However, nothing gets me wetter faster than a quick spur of the moment romp in the sheets.

3 – Giver or receiver? – I am a giver all the way. I feel weird being on the receiving end to be honest. I love making my partner feeling the best that they have ever felt, and I like to make each session memorable.

4 – Background noise or no? – The only background noise I like to hear is us. I (and past partners) have gotten too distracted if there was something playing (on netflix) in the background. Unfortunately the background noise was necessary for the comfort of roommate’s.

5 – Top or bottom? – To be completely honest, I prefer the bottom. I like to look up at my lover and watch the faces of pleasure that they make. That, and I am just not balanced to be on top, though I am sure that could get better with practice.

6 – Private or public? – I am too much of a chicken for public, though I have had some steamy makeout sessions in the back of my car in a busy parking lot a time or two.

Bonus – Describe your best or worst sexual encounter. Double bonus if you describe both. 😉

Best – I am definitely going to have to go with the time(s) I had hot tub sex with J. I felt so bouyant and much more flexible in the water. I only wish I could have had more, and for longer.

Worst – Every single time I got with Toby. I didn’t realize it at the time, but he never cared about me and my comfort. He would always push for something until I caved only because I felt like I needed some kind of intimacy.

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Sinful Sunday – Splurge

I recently got a new job that allows me to splurge on myself a little bit more often now. I went and ordered some new lingerie and sexy panties, this thong being one of my purchases. I will definitely share more of what I bought later. 😉

On a side note, I recently gave the blog a makeover. I would love to hear your thoughts. Are the colors ok, and is it easy to read and look at? I know it looks best on a computer, and I am not happy with the tablet/phone layout. I am looking for something better.

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