TMI Tuesday – Social Norms

TMI Tuesday…play it, enjoy it!

Times keep-a-changin’

1. Does your workplace have a “casual Friday” or a day when you can dress down or out of uniform?

My workplace does not. For my department we are required to wear office casual every day of the week. Sadly that means no jeans. Luckily, we are one of the few departments that does not require a uniform.

2. Has the growth of social media and unabashed sharing of personal info on social media made you MORE or LESS cautious about your privacy?

I am more cautious in some ways, like when it pertains to my  personal identity. Other ways, like blogging, I love to kiss and tell.

3. Is gay marriage legal where you live?

Yes.

4. Is smoking marijuana legal where you live? Under what circumstances?

Yes. Recreational and medical.

5. Give us a hashtag that best describes your weekend. Hashtag must be 15 letters or less.

#DogSittingForTheBF.

Bonus:  Have you ever stalked a celebrity? Who?

No, though I used to be obsessed with Justin Timberlake as a kid.

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Sinful Sunday – All of Me

I took some pictures a while ago, but never shared them. I kept them to myself. They showed more of me than I ever intended. Mostly I was afraid to show so much of me, but then I started to see them for the beautiful treats that they are. I have finally gathered the courage to share. Unfortunately it was long enough ago that I did not have my piercings. I have been unsuccessful at recreating  said pics.

 

 

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TMI Tuesday – Sexual Revelations

Let’s do this–TMI Tuesday.

Sexual Revelations

1. When did you see your first naked woman that was not a family member?

I am guessing that movies/magazines don’t count. In that case, I think I was about 20 when I started “experimenting” with my mom’s friend Sarah.

2. When did you see your first naked man that was not a family member?

The first live human male I saw naked that was not a family member was my first real boyfriend. We had just walked from the bus stop to my house in the pouring rain and were trying to dry off quicker bu removing our soaked clothes. I gave my first blowjob that day.

3. What were the circumstances of each situation?

Female – Sarah and I were messing around with my male friends on the webcam. Once she realized I was into it, we fooled around a bit further.

Male – The boyfriend and I had just walked from the bus stop to my house in the pouring rain and were trying to dry off quicker bu removing our soaked clothes. I gave my first blowjob that day.

4. At what age did you first witness sexual nudity? Was it online or in print?

I think I was about 9 when I saw Titanic and the famous drawing scene. That seemed sexual to me. After that I would try and find all the other movies we owned with nudity. I always got a thrill looking at them.

5. Sexual revolution–When was yours OR It hasn’t happened yet?

I think when I started going to college and started this blog in 2008. I was 20 years old, and started having more casual sex encounters.

Bonus: What’s the best sex advice or sex education book you’ve ever read? (Yes, it must be a book, could be online but a book)

The Guide to Getting it On was introduced to my human sexuality class in college. I ended up picking up my own copy that semester when Borders was still a thing.

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TMI Tuesday – This or That?

This week’s TMI questions are brought to you by yours truly! Enjoy!

This or That?

1 – Lights on or off? – I like them on so that I can see my partner as we are getting down and dirty, but I enjoy the intimacy of feeling each other in the dark.

2 – Slow teasing or getting right to business? – I enjoy a good slow tease. It gets me worked up and wetter than ever. However, nothing gets me wetter faster than a quick spur of the moment romp in the sheets.

3 – Giver or receiver? – I am a giver all the way. I feel weird being on the receiving end to be honest. I love making my partner feeling the best that they have ever felt, and I like to make each session memorable.

4 – Background noise or no? – The only background noise I like to hear is us. I (and past partners) have gotten too distracted if there was something playing (on netflix) in the background. Unfortunately the background noise was necessary for the comfort of roommate’s.

5 – Top or bottom? – To be completely honest, I prefer the bottom. I like to look up at my lover and watch the faces of pleasure that they make. That, and I am just not balanced to be on top, though I am sure that could get better with practice.

6 – Private or public? – I am too much of a chicken for public, though I have had some steamy makeout sessions in the back of my car in a busy parking lot a time or two.

Bonus – Describe your best or worst sexual encounter. Double bonus if you describe both. 😉

Best – I am definitely going to have to go with the time(s) I had hot tub sex with J. I felt so bouyant and much more flexible in the water. I only wish I could have had more, and for longer.

Worst – Every single time I got with Toby. I didn’t realize it at the time, but he never cared about me and my comfort. He would always push for something until I caved only because I felt like I needed some kind of intimacy.

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Sinful Sunday – Splurge

I recently got a new job that allows me to splurge on myself a little bit more often now. I went and ordered some new lingerie and sexy panties, this thong being one of my purchases. I will definitely share more of what I bought later. 😉

On a side note, I recently gave the blog a makeover. I would love to hear your thoughts. Are the colors ok, and is it easy to read and look at? I know it looks best on a computer, and I am not happy with the tablet/phone layout. I am looking for something better.

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TMI Tuesday – Tell it Like it is

Elaborate on each in greater than 20 words but no more than 100 words.

1. Sex is ___many things. It is always intimate, but depending on the mood it can be gentle gentle or rough, long or quick, steady or varied. Sex is something that I don’t seem to get enough of. Never have, and I am starting to wonder if I ever will__ .

2. Love is ___something that I fall into easily. I give my all and love unconditionally. I have discovered I feel different levels of love for everyone that I have in my life.__ .

3. Money is ___something that I feel like I will never have enough of, but also something I don’t care about as much compared to other things in my life. I want to do what makes me happy, not rich (though that would be a nice bonus)__ .

4. Power is ___a nice rumbly vibrator to help guide my orgasm into existence. The more speeds the better, as I always tend to use the most powerful setting. __ .

5. Life is __full of surprises. Just recently I started a new job at a different company, where several months ago I never would have imagined leaving the place I worked at for over 10 years. I also didn’t think I would come back to blogging and reviewing with my lack of sex drive, but here I am___ .

Bonus: Food is __One of my specialties. I love to cook, and I especially love to cook for friends, and most recently the boyfriend. I recently have been getting more creative with my meals, trying to find things to win him over even more, since they say that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach___ .

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TMI Tuesday – Sexy it is

It’s a lovely spring day here in the mid-atlantic region of the U.S. How’s your weather? What season is it? Oh, and let’s do TMI Tuesday 🙂

Sexy it is!

1. What question about sex do you find hard to ask your partner? – If they want to help me reach orgasm, or if they mind me getting myself there.

2. What question about sex do you find hard to ask anyone? – What kind of sexy and naughty tings they are into. What positions, etc.

3. Sexually, what are your favorite things to do? – I absolutely LOVE giving head. I love the intimacy and trust involved. I also enjoy PIV sex. Missionary is my favorite position, but that is also the only one I really know.

4. Name 3 things that most excite your imagination when you imagine doing them? – Nothing gets me more turned on than the idea of a hot make out session, leading to me giving oral, to finishing off with PIV sex.

5. In how many countries have you had sexual relations? – Only one sadly.

Bonus: Describe your ideal sex partner. –  My ideal sex partner would have a libido that matched or even topped mine. Someone who was willing to learn from me as well as someone I could learn from. I would love someone open minded about trying new things.

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TMI Tuesday – Never Have I ever, Or Have I?

Hey there! Another week, another TMI Tuesday posted.

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1. Have you ever been so loud having sex that housemates/neighbors commented or complained?

I have not for sex, but I have orgasmed quite loudly a few times and my roommate heard. This happened on several occasions, on the same night. She let me be and giggled at me the next morning for it.

2. Ever had kids or parents bust in on you in the middle of full on sex?

Thankfully no. I have heard of it happening to others, and I am truly sorry. I did have a few close calls once though. One in particular was when I was in college, still living at my mom’s. I had given my first blowjob. We had just gotten dressed when my mom’s friend that was staying with us showed up.

3. Have you ever licked or sucked on someone else’s feet and/or toes? Was it your request or theirs?

I have not, and I don’t think I could, nor could I let them do mine.

4. Describe your typical sexual romp:
a. You are playful and tame

b. You have introduced a few things like outfits and toys

c. You love trying new things and shocking your partner

d. Keep it simple–missionary, lube, sleep.

All of the above? My sex life has been all of the above, but in reality I love to try new things. I am insatiable that way.

5. Speaking of lube–what is your favorite lube for sex and why?

I have never used lube for sex sadly. I have used some for masturbation when the toys required it though. Someday I am sure I will find it more necessary, but right now I haven’t really found it necessary or my partner didn’t give me the chance (that was a long time ago).

Bonus: What are you looking forward to this week?

I am looking forward to hopefully being able to spend one last ngith with the guy I started seeing before he leaves. At this point I don’t think it will happen. 🙁

 

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30 Days of Truth – Day 08 – Someone Who Made Your Life Hell

**I started this series a while back, and am going to try to finish it**

There have been many people who made my life hell, not just one. The worst time I remember though, was in elementary school. The kids there were horrible, and I didn’t feel like the teachers helped much either.

I got made fun of mostly because of my weight. I was a serious loner who only wanted to be accepted. I had a few friends, but they never lasted, always getting corrupted by the “cool kids.”

I had a terrible time at recess. If I did happen to get included, it was so that the other kids could make fun of how they ran faster than I walked. When I tried to mind my own business and read a book in a secluded spot the kids would take away my book, making fun of me for reading. I was miserable.

To this day I still hate sports. I tried to get into them, but the kids never wanted to teach me. At PE and dodge ball came around I always got showered with balls. Teachers never helped. Even when I went crying to them for help, they pretty just told me to suck it up and show that I wasn’t upset.

One time on lunch break in 4th grade a girl in my class cornered me in the bathroom and squirted Capri Sun in my eyes after stealing my glasses. She only got a referral, and I got detention because I apparently egged her on. In third grade a girl accused me of cutting her in line and bit me on my barely grown tit.

So yeah, elementary school was miserable for me, junior high still sucked, high school was a tad better, bullying wise (except for the time a couple of girls called pretending to be a cute boy in class and asked me out. I fell for it, then made a total ass of myself the next day when I saw said boy), and college was amazing.

Who’s Counting

This weeks TMI questions were asked by me this week. Sorry I am late in posting.

1. Do you/have you ever kept track of the number or people you have been with?

Yes, I do. It is fun sometimes to look back over it.

2. To get specific, How many people have you –

a. slept with

I have had standard PIV with 5 guys.

b. kissed (in a romantic way, obviously)

I have kissed and been kissed by 19 people ( both men and women).

c. given oral to

I have given head to 11 people. 10 guys and 1 woman.

d. received oral from

Only 5 people have went down on me.

E. had anal with

I have only received anal from one person.

3. What is the most amount of people you have been with at one time? (twosome, threesome, foursome, etc)

I have only had threesomes, but someday I would love to have a foursome or more.

4. Have you ever had multiple partners in the same day, just different times? (One person in the morning, another at lunch, and one at dinner, etc)

Sadly no, but I think that would be a fun and interesting experience.

Bonus: Describe your best multiple person encounter, either something that actually happened or one that you would want to happen. Or both.

Real – my best multiple person encounter was the time I had a MMF threesome. It was so unexpected but so hot and sexy.

Fantasy – I would love to experience an orgy, as well as being spit roasted. Honestly though, my multiple people fantasies are endless. I have a lot.

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