TMI Tuesday – Space

“Time is not a line but a dimension, like the dimensions of space.” Welcome to TMI Tuesday

I Need My Space

1. Do you think that fate or destiny play a role in love?
a. Absolutely
b. For the most part
c. Somewhat
d. Not really
e. Not at all

I absolutely believe it. If you had asked me 6 months ago I might not have. Now though, I most definitely do. I was working at a place that I was miserable in for over 10 years. By random chance, an old coworker reached out with a new opportunity. I took it, after thinking that I would forever be at said miserable place. I met Aaron at the new place. I am having trouble with coworkers again, but Aaron helps keep me strong. I believe I was only sent there to meet him. It might sound cheesy to some, but we are meant to be.

2. True or False – If my sexual likes and dislikes are not in line with my partners, I change them.

False – We would talk about it. Luckily, we have the same interests, and even those that we are curious the other is willing to try. 

3. You and your partner are at a party. Both of you are equally acquainted with the hosts and the other people attending, although you aren’t the best of pals with any of the guests, you have conversed with them on a few occasions. During the socializing, what would you most likely do?
a. I’d stay glued to my partner’s side, conversing with the same people he/she is.
b. I’d be away from my partner, mingling with the other guests.
c. I’d stay near my partner, but involved in different conversations.
d. I spend some time by my partner’s side, and some time mingling.
e. I let my partner drift or stick by me – as she/he wishes.

Neither of us like large gatherings, so this is unlikely, but if it did happen we would definitely stay close to each other. 

4. Have you ever gone through your partner’s journal, diary or personal letters?
a. Yes – I‘ve read it/them from A to Z.
b. Yes – I’ve read some of it/them.
c. I know where she/he keeps them but I haven’t read any.
d. I know where she/he keeps them – I couldn’t help but look – but I haven’t read any.
e. No – I don’t know where she/he keeps them, and I have no intention of looking.
f. No – I don’t know she/he keeps them, even though I’ve looked.

I don’t think he does keep a journal, but if he did that is his business. If he wants to show me something he wrote, he will. No need to snoop.

5. Have you ever had a romantic partner go through your journal, diary, personal letters or text messages without your permission? How did you feel? What did you do?

I have not, though I imagine that I would feel violated and extremely upset. I am an open book, and if they couldn’t see that that is their loss.

Bonus:  What makes you feel loved?

The way that Aaron looks at me, kisses and holds me. The things we do together. 

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TMI Tuesday – Valentine’s Day (Almost)

1. Tell us two reasons why you would stay in a bad relationship.

From past experience, the only reason I did stay in bad relationships was for one main reason and that was fear of being along. I had several other reasons, like I was more attached to his cat, or I was afraid I would crush him too much than I was already feeling crushed. All very horrible reasons, but that is why I stayed. I am glad to be moved past all of that.

I really feel like I have found the relationship I have always wanted and more. We can tell each other anything and no longer fear scaring the other off. The sex is amazing, and we can be silly together, even during sex. I couldn’t be happier. Aaron is amazing and I love him. 😀

2. Do you wish your private life was kinkier?

Honestly, no. I mean, we definitely have a to do list of things we want to try together, but we are in no rush to do so. I am happy, happier than I have ever been, and happier than I ever could have imagined possible.

3. Tell us about your weirdest sexual experience.

Honestly, I could not tell you. I don’t think I have ever had a “weird” sexual experience. Lots of uncomfortable ones yes, but never weird.

4. Can you have a totally hands-free orgasm?

Yes and no. Mostly nom but I have been able to do this thing where I can relax my whole body and have a mini orgasm. I don’t feel the sexual side effects, but I do get the change in heart rhythm and breathing. It is a very weak one, and I much prefer boyfriend and toy induced orgasms.

5. What tips can you give for staying hard (you personally or keeping your partner hard)?

Don’t overstimulate it, but don’t understimulate it. Give it a little bit of attention every so often, but don’t give it so much attention that it gets tired.

Bonus: Is it okay to not celebrate Valentine’s Day even though you have a partner? Why or why not?

I say yes, because I feel like Valentine’s day is a commercial holiday. I feel like it has lost it’s meaning for a lot of couples. That said, I will definitely be celebrating this year because it is our first one together, and our five month mark is just two days before. That, and it marks the 6 month mark to my birthday.

TMI Tuesday – Story Time

Let’s have some new fun with TMI Tuesday. Create a story using the words below. Your story should be 250 words or less. It can be funny, sexy, sad, quirky, kinky and/or intriguing.

Get those creative juices flowing!
Dragging
Kitchen
Bedroom
Sofa
Albert Einstein
Closet
Eggbeater
Olive Oil
Eight (8)
Rain

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I was intrigued by this week’s TMIT. I thought it would by fun for my boyfriend and I to both write a story.

My Story – Albert Einstein was in the kitchen, cleaning up while listening to the rain on the roof. It was a cold and stormy night, and he couldn’t help himself as he reminisced about the sexy afternoon he had had with his lover.

It started on the sofa, where they watched a funny movie. They held hands, and kissed between scenes. As he cleaned the eggbeater, he thought about how he had bent her over the coffee table to lighly smack her ass.

Practically dragging each other to the bedroom in primal urgency, he tossed his belt onto the closet shelf. His eightinch cock was begging to be released from the confines of his pants.

As he wiped down the counters and put away the olive oil, he thought about the lotion they had used to massage into each other’s backs.

It wasn’t long before he was on top of her, emptying his hot, creamy load into her tight, wet pussy.

Aaron’s Story – The rain beat soundly against the roof. Ryan never liked moving things around, but if Ash asks him to get the sofa out of the closet and into the bedroom, then he’d be dragging that sofa around. “How do you like your eggs!” He heard Ash’s voice from the kitchen. She was on dinner duty tonight, and Ryan couldn’t help pass up one of his favorite jokes.

“Unfertilized!”

“You know what I meant! How many do you want, I’m thinking of doing eight for the both of us!”

“Sounds good to me!” Ryan called back. He passed his favorite poster of Albert Einstein, the one with his tongue sticking out, as he went back to hurting his back.

“Where’s the eggbeater! Why do you never have anything where it should be?” Ash asked. He could hear her rummaging through various cupboards.

“It should be next to the olive oil!”

“Why the…Ryan, we need to talk about where you place some of your tools sometimes.”

“What? I know you like where I place my tool!”

“Dammit Ryan!” He smirked. He could hear her blush from here.

TMI Tuesday – Past, Future, and Present

Let’s do this thing–TMI Tuesday.

​1. What do you think about when you’re alone in your car? 

In my car or not, I am most always thinking about Aaron, my boyfriend. I replay the times we share together, and plan the future. Never have I ever felt so amazing, loved, and adored by one human being. It is a new feeling and I am rather addicted to it.

2. What advice do you have for your previous lover?

Don’t be afraid to open up, and communication is key. If you aren’t attracted to someone, you should not date them. Also, don’t be a dick. Don’t be nice in the beginning then turn into a dick. Just don’t.

3. What  inspires you?

To be completely honest, Aaron inspires me. He inspires me to get out of bed in the morning, and is my rock when I am having a rough day at work. He makes me want to strive to be a better person, both inside and out, physically and emotionally. Once finances allow, I plan to quit buying crap for food and getting the healthy stuff. I want to better my body and be healthy. Not just for myself, but for him and our future.

4. If you were to get rid of one person in your life, who would it be and why?

Honestly, I am pretty happy with who I have in my life. I have a few close friends, I have Aaron, and I have a few family members. The most toxic person in my life moved away and we no longer talk.

5. How do you cope when your level of sexual desire doesn’t match your partners? 

This question I know the answer all too well. Until Aaron, everyone I dated had little to no sex drive. It was tough, I will not lie. There was a lot of masturbation that helped get me through.

Bonus:  Are you single, why? Are you married, why?

I am neither single nor married. I am in the best boyfriend/girlfriend relationship that I have ever had. Why? Because I met an amazing man that I can share anything with, and he can with me. The communication we share is amazing, as is all the other things we have in common.

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TMI Tuesday – Shame

Over the weekend I found these questions from Heelsnstocking in a very old email. The questions are great. I cannot believe they were not already published here on TMI Tuesday blog but my search did not find them. So here we go…Shame.

Shame

1. Tell us a sexual thing/fantasy would you never want your friends to know you like or have done?

I am still kind of embarrassed at my fetish/curiosity with pee. I may have mentioned it in a joking manor to test the waters with friends and potential partners, but they usually scoff in disgust so I play it safe and say I am joking.

2. Has anyone ever found an item of sexy underwear, a sex toy or perhaps a picture on your phone that embarrassed you?

Yes! On my 18th birthday I was home alone and was not allowed to go out or have friends over because my mom was out of town. I decided to spend my alone time masturbating. However, my friends decided to surprise me with pizza and cake. I couldn’t turn them away, so I let them in. Eventually they convinced me to leave the house to go to another friend’s house and one friend went to find and get my socks.

They found my socks, but not before finding my vibrator I had hastily thrown in my drawer when my unexpected company arrived. I was a little embarrassed, but that’s what they get for looking through my drawers.

3. Do you have any fantasies you could never go through with because you think you would feel ashamed?

Lately I have had a bit of a rape fantasy. I am terrified to touch on that one, even on here. I am unsure if I could ever play it out or even really write it out.

4. Have you ever felt shame after a sexual experience?

Pretty much every time I hooked up with Toby, back when I was first becoming sexually active. I always felt so used and alone after, yet kept letting him come back because curiosity got the best of me.

Bonus:  Share a recent non-sexual moment of shame.

Pretty much every time I make a small error at work during data entry.

Double Bonus: Share a recent sexual moment of shame.

The other night I took some boob pictures and sent them to the boyfriend. They went completely ignored, though he said he got them (when I asked a day later). Nothing else was said, no thanks, or please don’t send those again. I am a little hurt, and I have been building up to have a very serious talk with him.

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TMI Tuesday – Important Questions

TMI Tuesday time–time to answer these…

Important Questions

1. If you are on facebook, when was the last time you had to “unfriend” someone and why?

I unfriended a guy I went on a couple of dates with, The best way to describe him would be toxic. He made me feel like shit about myself, and my priorities (work). He had some major issues.

2. What are you addicted to?

Masturbation and sunflower seeds. Not at the same time of course. Oh, and caffeine.

3. What are the first 3 things you do every morning?

Look at my phone, use the bathroom, then get dressed.

4. How lucky are you and why?

I suppose that I am lucky in the fact that I have a good job, a roof over my head, and reliable transportation.

5. What is one thing you’re embarrassed to admit you want to try?

I do have kind of a curiosity about watersports play…I have mentioned it a few times here, but rarewly have I ever told a partner.

Bonus: Are you proud of what you are doing?

I am proud of this blog. This coming September it will be 9 years old. I am proud of putting myself out there and getting a better job at a place that I am much happier to work at.

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TMI Tuesday – Digging Deep

Yes, yes…here it is. Another TMI Tuesday.

Digging Deep

1. The last time you had sex, was it urgent or essential? Consider masturbation or sex with a partner.

Both. With a partner, it was urgent. I got him worked up by playing with and teasing his cock during a movie, as well as sucking on his fingers. The movie couldn’t finish fast enough. During masturbation, it was essential, and usually is with me.

2. What should you stop doing? Why?

I should stop being so insecure. I get anxious way too easily and tend to fret about little things. I need to learn to think positive and stay positive.

3. What makes you feel strongest? Sexiest?

This blog has helped make me strong, both with feedback, and a place I can share anything. Sadly, nothing has really made me feel sexy lately.

4. When do you feel vulnerable?

Dating. It gets harder and harder to put myself out there. I lucked out with my current boyfriend, as he took things slow, something that I needed.

5. What is missing from your sex life?

Sex itself, and intimacy. Something I miss greatly, but am willing to overlook their lack in my life because the companionship I am building now feels more important to me.

Bonus: If you left your current lover, what would you miss the most?

The companionship we have been building since we met. I am learning to trust again. I would miss the happy sound he makes when we kiss or I touch/rub/scratch his back. His kisses and cuddles are pretty amazing too.

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TMI Tuesday – Would You Rather…?

It’s another addition of TMI Tuesday “Would You Rather…?”

1. If you and your significant other played “sexual truth or dare” with other couples, would you rather watch your s.o. have sex with someone or would you prefer having sex with someone in front of your s.o.?

It depends. I really don’t like to share, and I don’t think he would either. However, if the other person he had sex with was male I might be more into it. I would feel more comfortable having sex with a woman than a man if my boyfriend was to watch. However, I would love a MMF thressome with him, so if he was to join I would much prefer that.

2. Would you rather watch your favorite porn with your sibling or read your favorite sexy erotica out loud to your parent(s)?

Honestly, none would really bother me. However, I have actually watched porn with one of my sister’s before, and that was hilarious. We had a lot of amusing commentary with it, and it was my first porn, so she was able to say “it doesn’t work like that in real life” when appropriate.

3. To get sexually aroused, would you rather watch girl on girl porn or guy on guy porn?

Guy on guy, as that is what I watch anyways.

4. Would you rather have sex with your boss, in an office conference room or masturbate at home knowing that your neighbor is watching?

Considering the fact that I work at a casino and there are cameras EVERYWHERE, I think I would prefer to masturbate with the neighbor watching, depending on the neighbor.

5. Based on your current mood, would you rather try out new and kinky sex ideas or have romantic sex?

Honestly, I would love the romantic sex, as it has been a long time for any type of sex.

Bonus: Would you rather have three kids and no money or no kids with three million dollars?

No kids and 3M dollars, definitely. I am kind of thinking I don’t want kids, though I am just not at a good point in my life to even consider kids.

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TMI Tuesday – Life, Dating, Body, and More

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Life: dating, your body and more

1. What period of your life was the happiest? Why?

I think my happiest period of my life (so far) was when I moved out of my mom’s and got a place with Will. I loved having him to come home to and talk to at the end of the day. I loved it even more when we got our own place without other roommates. That was a time when I felt certain about where I was going in life. Marriage and kids were next. We never got to that point, and my current relationship is a waiting game that only time will tell.

2. True or False. If you want a successful date, take charge–take the lead. Why?

I started to say false, but now I am thinking true. However, it really depends on the date. With my guy, I had to plan our first date, but once we got to talking, our conversation flowed equally.

3. True or false: Males are aggressive and assertive, and women are nurturing. Explain your answer.

False. I tend to find and meet men that are very gentle and indecisive. I am very nurturing however, though I know quite a few ladies who are not.

4. Is your body keeping you from a good sex life? How so?

I think so, but that is because I have poor self esteem. However, I don’t have the typically sought after body type. Most men that I have met are not into BBWs. I am not that flexible, and being bigger has required finding more creative positions in the bedroom. Lately I have had partners too lazy to try. They haven’t lasted long. Right now I am in my longest relationship since Will, but I can count the amount of times we have fooled around on one hand.

5. Smiles. Do you have a sexy smile that is different from your regular smile. Post a pic of your sexy smile or describe it for us?

I feel like I do have a nice smile when I have something to smile about. I especially love my smile after a few drinks, and that is when I tend to take the most “selfies.”

Bonus: May is Masturbation Month. Which of these is your best benefit from masturbating:
a. helps you to relax and/or fall asleep
b. boosts self-esteem
c. combats erectile dysfunction
d. helps you know what feels good so you can tell your sex partner

A combination of A, B, and D. C does not apply as I do not have a penis.

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TMI Tuesday – May Day

May Day

1. Today is couple appreciation day. What do you most appreciate about being a couple (consider current or past relationships)

I appreciate having someone there at the end of the day. I love sending him sweet good morning texts in hopes of making his day a little bit better. Hes been a bit scarce the last few weeks due to school, but I am hoping to have his undivided attention soon. I also appreciate the fact that that if I am having a bad day, he knows what to say to cheer me up.

2. It is also Global Love Day. How can you or how will you extend love today?

As I said above, I send a good morning text in hopes of brightening his day. We are not quite at the “I love you” stage, but maybe soonish? I don’t know, I already said it last month, though I am letting him think it was the alcohol since he didn’t reciprocate the feeling.

3. May 1 is loyalty day as well, originally it had to do with patriotism in the United States. That meaning aside, in what ways are you loyal?

I don’t give up on people easily. I give more chances than I should count. I don’t “cheat.” I guess I am also kind of a door mat, lol.

4. So it seems today is also Phone In Sick day. When is the last time you phoned in sick? Where you really sick? How did you spend the “sick” day?

Several years ago. Back in 2014. I was horribly sick. I couldn’t breathe, had to get a new inhaler and everything. I only call in when I am on my deathbed. Well, except the time that there were too many people scheduled and I just want to play video games. My coworkers thanked me.

5. May 1, 1840 the world’s first adhesive postage stamp was issued in the United Kingdom. Who would you like to see on a postage stamp?

Not who, but what. I would love to see x-rated postage stamps. Sadly, I don’t ever see that happening.

Bonus:  How was your first day of May?

Honestly it was kind of shitty. I hate coming to work after the weekend because there is 3 days of work rather than 1. It is always a clusterfuck, especially on the first.

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