TMI Tuesday – Shame

Over the weekend I found these questions from Heelsnstocking in a very old email. The questions are great. I cannot believe they were not already published here on TMI Tuesday blog but my search did not find them. So here we go…Shame.


1. Tell us a sexual thing/fantasy would you never want your friends to know you like or have done?

I am still kind of embarrassed at my fetish/curiosity with pee. I may have mentioned it in a joking manor to test the waters with friends and potential partners, but they usually scoff in disgust so I play it safe and say I am joking.

2. Has anyone ever found an item of sexy underwear, a sex toy or perhaps a picture on your phone that embarrassed you?

Yes! On my 18th birthday I was home alone and was not allowed to go out or have friends over because my mom was out of town. I decided to spend my alone time masturbating. However, my friends decided to surprise me with pizza and cake. I couldn’t turn them away, so I let them in. Eventually they convinced me to leave the house to go to another friend’s house and one friend went to find and get my socks.

They found my socks, but not before finding my vibrator I had hastily thrown in my drawer when my unexpected company arrived. I was a little embarrassed, but that’s what they get for looking through my drawers.

3. Do you have any fantasies you could never go through with because you think you would feel ashamed?

Lately I have had a bit of a rape fantasy. I am terrified to touch on that one, even on here. I am unsure if I could ever play it out or even really write it out.

4. Have you ever felt shame after a sexual experience?

Pretty much every time I hooked up with Toby, back when I was first becoming sexually active. I always felt so used and alone after, yet kept letting him come back because curiosity got the best of me.

Bonus:  Share a recent non-sexual moment of shame.

Pretty much every time I make a small error at work during data entry.

Double Bonus: Share a recent sexual moment of shame.

The other night I took some boob pictures and sent them to the boyfriend. They went completely ignored, though he said he got them (when I asked a day later). Nothing else was said, no thanks, or please don’t send those again. I am a little hurt, and I have been building up to have a very serious talk with him.


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Happy TMI Tuesday!

3 thoughts on “TMI Tuesday – Shame”

  1. Ha! Post your boob pics here and we’ll give you a rating! 🙂

    The pee thing is interesting. My wife and I once had a conversation about it a few years back, and both of us were thinking entirely different things. I thought she was broaching the subject of ‘water sports’ and so I was giving tentative supportive answers. It turned out all she meant was she didn’t mind if I pee’d in the shower while she was in there too, as long as it went straight down the drain. It took about 5 minutes for me to click she wasn’t talking about sex and I don’t think she understood how close she came to getting a golden shower from me!


  2. sorry i am late! I have been away and not even managed to write my answers,which i am determined to do as the questions are blinding.
    As usual your answers are so honest and real – that’s why i love your blog. I have tried “golden showers” once – eventually you will read about it on – when i write about it i will msg you 😉

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