To be completely honest, I am not too into hand spanking (or any kind of spanking). It just doesn’t really feel good to me, especially the harder swats. Now, that does not mean that I am completely against it, there is just a really fine line for me.
That said, I absolutely love the playful little spanks, both giving and receiving. I find it a huge shock (and compliment) when a partner suddenly grabs or lightly spanks my ass. It can also be hot hot or twice during sex if done lightly.
I can’t really think of a time when spanking was used a lot. Thinking back, I really only got a thrill out of it when it was used in a playful manner, and only even then when I was in the middle of sexless relationships and that was the only physical interaction I got. I learned to take what I could get and thrive off of that. It is kind of sad when you think about it.
I think it is great that others can get such a thrill out of it, and I do admire them when there are marks left over from their own spankings.
I love playful spanks (as well as the firmer ones too), but I probably get more of the playful ones at the moment and they do always make feel a bit giggly and smiley. I neglected the playful spanks in my own post, but this is a great reminder that they really can be a lot of fun 🙂 Floss
For me its that where sex is concerned i am a bit of an adrenaline junky so i like to be spanked, whipped – lots of stuff – you read my blog 😉 But I don’t crave adrenaline any where else in my life, such as scary rides or hand gliding – not for me. I like my feet on the ground …
I think impact play is where I get my kicks, the thrill, the fight, the rush, all works for me
Mollyx
Playful spanks are always good fun. But I’m glad you had an alternative viewpoint, we can’t all enjoy the same thing and that is perfectly ok 🙂