Sweeten Dirty

I am a 31 year old bi girl learning and discovering myself while writing about it. I love to kiss and tell.

I Miss His Kiss

I have been thinking about J a lot. It has been nearly 4 months since we last hung out. I miss him. I miss the way he makes me feel, the way he touches me, his shyness and the way he asks for permission. Permission to touch me, permission to touch himself. It’s all so hot. Strangely, I miss his kiss. He wasn’t my favorite person to kiss, but I… Read More »I Miss His Kiss

What I Need to Do

After nearly a week of thinking, asking for advice, and thinking some more, I have finally come to a decision about D. I am going to tell him that it’s his dick, he can stick it where he wants, but not me because I can’t have sex with someone that careless. I mean, I totally get the multiple partners. I have gotten over that. I would just feel more comfortable… Read More »What I Need to Do

TMI Tuesday – Hook Ups

Hook-ups: A cultural revolution Hookups — brief uncommitted sexual encounters between individuals who are not romantic partners or dating each other. 1. When was your last hook-up? About a month ago. 2. Briefly describe the hook-up? D was leaving for vacation the next day, so we wanted to say goodbye and have one last go round before who knows when we would hang out again. 3. How did you feel… Read More »TMI Tuesday – Hook Ups


I love to flirt online. It is a huge confidence booster when exchanging flirts online. Friday afternoon I got a message from a guy several hours away from me. For once he actually seemed to have read my page so I messaged back. I couldn’t respond back until after work, but the conversation flowed nicely. We chatted for several hours, eventually moving it to Skype for quicker response time. We… Read More »Flirt

Slap in the Face

D was texting me the other night, saying that something interesting happened to him at work. He said it was a lot to text and would rather talk on Skype/phone or in person. A few days later he texted saying that really cute twins came into the store he worked at and flirted heavily. I rolled my eyes, thinking not much of it, though still a tad jealous. Later tonight… Read More »Slap in the Face

Writing Habits

One pattern I notice with my blogging is that if I don’t have a post up every day, I get out of the habit of writing. One day will turn into two, then a week, a month, etc. I tend to stop completely once I stop for even a day. TMI Tuesday and Sinful Sunday help a lot. That’s two days a week I don’t have to think too hard… Read More »Writing Habits

Getting Sucked into a Damn Good Book

Lately I have been reading a book series I read in junior high. It is the Outlander series by Diana Gabaldon. If you have never heard of it, it is about a woman from 1945 on her second honeymoon when she “falls” through some stones and lands in 1743 Scotland. She meets and falls in love with a highlander, etc. I am in love with this series. I haven’t been… Read More »Getting Sucked into a Damn Good Book

Why I moved

There are several reasons as to why I moved my blog. Mostly because it is something I have always wanted to do, but also because I want to get back into doing sex toy reviews and have affiliate links. When blogs are hosted by wordpress, they do not allow bloggers, especially sex bloggers to make money from it. If I was to go against the terms and conditions, my blog… Read More »Why I moved